You gotta be sure that what happens to you, will always be used as something good in God’s favor, so, honestly, i would highly recommend that when you’re going through hard times, focus on Him, ask Him: what do you want me to learn? What’s the point in all this? and believe me, He WILL answer, but you gotta be alert to His answers, sometimes you won’t like them, but if it comes from God, it’s always for good.
A hint: don’t try to fit in, try to be what He wants.
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Romans 12:2 (New International Version)
2Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.
